Today my soccer team was subject to some disgraceful behaviour by the opposing team. It was in retrospect, a sign of things to come, but there was no official referee provided for this match, and thus each team had to provide in turn a referee for each half.
There were fouls committed against us, such as my teammate getting pushed in the head as he went up for a header, and I can't rule out the possibility that we may have commited fouls at times (although honestly, I did not see one). But the referees weren't trained, and so that was understandable. However, the thing that filled me to the brim with rage was the fact that the opposition was accusing us of being cheats and unfair. Not so subtly either, with foul words intermixed in their accusations against us and the makeshift referee. Now we're a church team, and I can attest to the fact that we stress the need to play fair and to be, within reason, courteous to the referee and other players, and that most of us adhere to this rule the majority of the time, with this game being no different. So as you can imagine I was burning with rage and honestly extremely close to just snapping and punching them in the face and starting a fight. I was honestly BURNING for a fight.
However the thing that held me back and in the end chased away my desire to fight was - Jesus. He commanded us to love our neighbours as ourselves (Matthew 22:39) and also to love our enemies and do good to them! (Luke 6:35)
"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful."
Luke 6:32-36
He also provided us an incredible example to follow on the cross. Where he proceeded to suffer all the beatings, rejections and ultimately die for us - sinners, enemies and false accusers. When I reflected on Jesus' love, my desire to fight started to disappear till it all went away.
We ended up losing 1-0. But there was no fight, with hands shaken at the end.
Just to point out, this change of mind I had was none to my own credit. It was all God. I can honestly say, and my friends from early high school can testify, that if it wasn't for the Holy Spirit changing me, I would have retaliated at least verbally, and probably physically as well.
All the glory to God :)
On a less serious (or still serious?) note, I got hit where a man not ought to get hit TWICE today.
So other lessons learnt today were:
- An official referee is extremely important in a soccer match against people you don't know.
- Turn to the side or something when jumping to defend against clearances.